Shopping!

Wouldn't it be nice if everything we'd ever need in life would magically appear when it was needed?  Unfortunately, it doesn't...  Everyone has to shop.  At least, everyone I've ever met.  We shop for food, clothes, entertainment, gifts and the list goes on.

If you're anything like me, you have to be in the "mood" to shop for certain things.  I love the grocery store; I hate shopping for clothes for myself.  I love wandering through large markets; I don't particularly enjoy wandering aimlessly through malls.  So, we're all different in what we shop for and where and how often.  The least I can do is help make it easier, quicker and less stressful!  Let's start with where you're going to shop.

What are you shopping for today, this week, this month?  Whatever the trip is that you're planning on taking out the door, know ahead of time where you'd like to look.  This is especially handy when shopping for lots of gifts for multiple people (like around the holidays).  Brainstorm a few minutes ahead of time to create a list of what you'd like to pick up.  Make a grocery list based on what recipes you'd like to make before your next trip to the store.  Make a gift list during holiday time with who to buy gifts for, ideas of what you might like to purchase and the price range you're looking to stay within.  Now, where will you have to go to find these things?  Can you pick them up at the corner store or local drug store?  Do you need to stop by a  specialty shop for something hard to find or locally made?  Make a master list of stops that will need to happen.

Now we know what we're getting and where we're going to get it.  Let's make the trip as easy as possible.  Map out the route you'll take from when you leave the house until when you return.  Make sure you don't make loops around yourself while you're out there.  One large loop is best.  However, keep traffic congestion and construction in mind if you're driving.  Find out what store hours are, especially if you're venturing out in the early morning, late evening or during the weekend.  If you're traveling by public transportation, use an online system to help map out the best route for each stop.  (If you are traveling by public transportation, also keep in mind how much you can carry in one trip!)  You might also want to make sure you have any coupons or gift cards with you that you think you might use on this trip out.

There are two other things to keep in mind when it comes to shopping:  making returns and the ease of shopping online.

If you're making any returns in this trip, here's what you need to know before you go:
- Do you have/need the receipt to return this item?
- Do you have/need the original packaging for this item?
- Is the item still eligible for return?
- Have you included the store on your route?
- Have you put it in the car/bag you're taking with you???

Now, online shopping.  It's great, and it's a trap all at once!  People can spend hours and hours browsing around online.  Don't!  Stick to the websites you know you love or that come highly recommended.  Have an idea of what you're looking for ahead of time, like when making any shopping list.  Make sure sites are secure before you purchase anything.  And, finally, give yourself a time limit!  This should be similar to the amount of time you'd be willing to be running errands outside the confines of your computer.  For some, online shopping is perfect: it's quick, it comes to you and there's no getting out of your pajamas.  For others, there's nothing better than being able to see the packaging and trying it on in person.

So, no matter which way you choose to purchase goods, just remember one thing: let me know when there's a great sale!

Closets Full of Clothes!

The holidays seem to be peaking around the corner.  It's pretty common that around winter holidays, many people buy or receive some new clothes. With that in mind, it's probably time to weed some things out of your closets (and dressers) to make space for those new clothes, new styles, and eventually, a new year.

What pieces to you actually wear?  Most women (and many men) keep "someday" clothes.  "Some day I'll be this size again."  Maybe.  Probably not.  Unless you are currently working to change your body size, realistically assess how long it has been since you fit into that size.  A month?  Okay, maybe you should hang on to some pieces for a while.  A year?  Time to say goodbye.  Chances are, if you are that size again, fashion will have changed.

"Someday I might need a piece like this."  Perhaps.  Again, be honest with yourself.  How long since you've needed a formal gown?  Since your career changed, have you ever worn a business suit?  And so on.

Make sure the items you're keeping are comfortable and fit how you'd like them to.  Ask yourself if you wore it this season or remember wearing it last season.  If an item from last winter still has the tags on it, you should probably donate it.  Same with things new from this past summer.  If you have pieces that need repairs or dry cleaning and you haven't had the motivation to fix it, donate them.  If it's been ___ amount of time since it needed attention, it hasn't been priority enough or fit into your lifestyle to care for it.  Pass it along to someone else who might like to give attention to this item.

Once clothes are donated and space created, set up the new closet!  Group like items.  This could be by season (winter, summer) or by style (tanks, long sleeves, pants, skirts, dresses).  You know how you dress, so you can set it up however it makes sense to you.  Some prefer to color code as well.  I like to do this within the categories.  For example, color code the tanks, then color code the dresses separately.

Other items: make sure there's a particular place to keep accessories: shoes, hats, belts, scarves.  These items all need a home to live, as well.  Don't forget to have a bag or hamper available for laundry and dry cleaning.  Feel free to use baskets, bins and the like to help catch these loose ends.


And, of course, get things off the floor!  That's how those piles get started!  Hang things up.  Fold them on shelves or in drawers.  Get shoe racks or bins.  Now, you're ready to dress for all those holiday parties!

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